Apr
Making decisions to feed back, challenge or critique can be surprisingly hard. I naturally used to start off confidently, to then side track into a confusing waffle, digress or even worse attack personally… Horrific!
When you are female, passionate and honest making a candid point can be pretty tricky!
So when I learned about this quick set of questions I sat up and listened.
Having used this brilliant tool for may moons I decided to be kind and share with those of you who haven’t of this mind candy.
So here it comes…
Before making the decision to ACT ask yourself:
Is it Necessary?
Is it Kind?
Is it True?
Why Me?
Why Now?
If the answers are positive, its a green light for you to escalate to phase 2: Consciously Plan To Say What You Mean To Get What You Want.
If the answers are negative, consider this a big fat veto on your decision to act and re-consider in the future when your answers are more positive.
BOOM
